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Knowing what you feel

Sometimes you just feel bad, without knowing why. In the Emotions theme you learn to recognise what you feel and what that feeling wants from you. Then you choose what to do with it.

Sound familiar?

  • You feel a bit meh all day, but you can't say what it is.
  • You snap in the group chat and regret it an hour later.
  • You cancel drinks because you dread going, and then feel even worse.
  • A comment from your manager keeps going round your head all evening.

What you learn

You're feeling something all day

Right now too, even if it's nothing dramatic. Every feeling tells you something. Anger says something is happening that isn't okay with you. Fear says you see something coming. Sadness says you lost something.

Every feeling comes and goes

A feeling builds, peaks and drops again. You're allowed to feel all of it, but what you do with it is a choice. Being angry with a friend is fine. Posting it straight to the group chat, maybe not.

More precise feels lighter

Most people have a few words for everything that isn't nice: bad, busy, tired. But irritated, frustrated and overwhelmed each ask for something different. And as soon as you name a feeling precisely, the alarm in your brain measurably drops. That's what you will do next.

What you do

These are the exercises in the app. Finish a step and the next one opens.

  1. Name it

    Find the word that really fits what you feel right now, in five steps.

  2. Another story

    Take a fresh look at something that happened and find a more honest story. For when your head fills in the worst straight away.

  3. Against the push

    Notice where a feeling is pushing you and choose what you do instead. For when you want to cancel, put off or avoid something.

  4. Unhook

    Take the thought that has hold of you and take the sting out of it in six steps. For when a sentence keeps sticking in your head.

  5. Stay with the feeling

    Recognise, allow, investigate and nurture. The route for a feeling that washes over you and has no words yet.

  6. Exploration

    Talk through how you handle your feelings and what you want to do differently, in four steps.

What it is based on

Every exercise in the app comes from somewhere. In the app you find the research behind each exercise, with the source.

What emotions do
Research describes emotions as tendencies to act: they get you ready to do something, which is why they feel so urgent. Newer theories stress that your brain builds the emotion out of bodily signals.
Naming what you feel
Putting a feeling into words is called affect labeling. In UCLA brain-imaging research, activity in the amygdala dropped as soon as participants gave an emotion a name.
Looking again (reappraisal)
Reappraisal, recasting a situation for yourself before the emotion is at full strength, comes from James Gross's process model of emotion regulation. In a large meta-analysis it had a small to medium effect on the feeling itself.
Opposite action
Opposite action is a skill from Marsha Linehan's dialectical behaviour therapy (DBT). DBT as a whole works in randomised trials. The skill on its own has been studied less. Every emotion carries an urge to act, and not following that urge can let the emotion subside.
Unhooking from thoughts (defusion)
Repeating a word out loud for thirty seconds is a technique Titchener described in 1916. In ACT research, believability and discomfort dropped more than with distraction. Believability keeps falling until around thirty seconds, hence the duration.
RAIN (mindfulness and self-compassion)
RAIN is a meditation practice from psychologist Tara Brach: recognise, allow, investigate and nurture. The steps build on mindfulness and self-compassion. In a meta-analysis of 27 randomised trials of self-compassion practice, stress, low mood, anxiety and self-criticism dropped measurably.

How MindMoment works

MindMoment is an app for young adults who want to grow mentally stronger. You start with a few short questions. Then the app puts the themes in an order that suits you.

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Frequently asked questions

That is exactly what this theme is for. In Name it you start with what you notice in your body and how much energy you have. From there you find the word that fits.

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